Live Life Your Way

How To Deal With Difficult People Intelligently  We meet various kinds of people in our lives. Some will love us and respect us and always be kind with us. But I am not talking about them for this time. Let’s talk about the ones who disrespect us, insult us, cheat on us, hurt us, people who put us down and people who make you feel bad about yourself.  When you find yourself surrounded and affected by difficult, toxic and insulting people, check out the below ways on how to deal with them without affecting yourself. Just grab a drink and continue reading... 1.Don't criticize: We criticize and complain about people, when they do something which we don’t like, hoping people will change. We try to react to whatever they say or do to us. When we criticize people we display a lack of empathy (understanding). Don’t criticize them as they are just doing what we would’ve done in similar situations. Don’t think that you are great and superior to o

“You carry so much love in your heart. Give some, to yourself” “Self love" – I have been hearing this a lot from many sources. I was actually fed up with this topic as I felt I was loving myself before, then why should I know more about it or what is there in it to actually learn about it. People say love yourself first and put yourselves on the pedestal instead of others. But I didn’t knew how to do that. I think I wasn’t loving myself as I deserve to be loved. May be I loved the idea of loving myself without truly loving myself. This continued until I truly started loving myself without seeking someone’s validation or approval.  What is Self Love  Self love is a life journey. It is our natural state of being. Many of us think that they love themselves like I thought. But if you love yourself you don’t be lead by people’s opinions, thoughts and feelings.  Is Self Discipline a Form of Self Love Many people get scared by the wo

We know “How to set healthy boundaries with people” was never taught in our education system although it is the most important part of life for our self worth and wellbeing. It is very crucial to make people understand what you tolerate and what you will not tolerate. Boundaries are important in any kind of relationship: romantic, familial and friendship. So let’s talk all about boundaries in this post.  We were not taught how to take care of ourselves and stand up for ourselves. I was kind of a people pleaser, codependent and a person who didn’t like to say no. I have never knew all these years what a boundary is and how important it is to maintain and enforce boundaries until I had some painful experiences which torn me off. "You are not too nice. You are just too afraid, to say no and honor your boundaries" If you are a people pleaser, you are going to struggle with boundaries because you  don’t want to say no to people. You fear people might think